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For years many men and women have confided to me the secrets of their lives; and of all the innumerable cases in which the circumstances are known to me, there are tragically few marriages which approach even humanly attainable joy. Many of those considered by the world, by the relatives, even by the loved and loving partner, to be perfectly happy marriages, Married seeking married for mutual pleasure secret tragedies to the more sensitive of the pair.

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Yet here, as elsewhere in nature, the law-breaker is punished whether he is aware of the existence of the law he breaks or not. In the state of ignorance which so largely predominates to-day, the first that things are amiss between the two who thought they were entering paradise together, is generally a sense of loneliness, a feeling that the one who was expected to have all in common, is outside some experience, some subtle delight, and fails to understand the needs of Lonely mom Center Line United States loved one.

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